A couple of days ago I had a conversation with one of my friends who wants to marry his girlfriend but there is a hindrance. Read on our conversation below to find what it is.
Friend: I want to marry my girlfriend but things are not fine from astrological perspective. Our horoscopes do not match.
Me: Okay. What in your horoscopes does not match?
Friend: Our “Guna-Milaan”score is below 18. So the astrologer has strongly advised not to go for the marriage. Else we will face troubles in our married life. (The maximum possible score in this methodology is 36. Anything above 18 is considered reasonable.)
Me: But that’s the outcome just Guna-Milaan. What about the result of “actual” match-making?
Friend: O_o ???
Yes, horoscope matching and Guna Milaan are not the same – not even similar. In fact, the latter constitutes of only around 15 % of the horoscope match process. Oh, that sounds pretty insignificant. Then what’s the other 85%? Well, following are the remaining parameters. Their significance is as per the order in which they are written with number 1 being the highest.
Important Parameters for Kundali Matching
1. Element – Fire, Water, Air, Earth. Example: People with predominant fire element in their horoscope are short-tempered. If both (bride and groom) have abundance of this element, then they’ll spend most of their life arguing and quarreling with each other.
2. Yogas – Every person has one or more yogas in his/her chart. Example: Raj yoga, Saraswati yoga. The yogas should be such that they bring out the best of each other’s chart. Same goes with planets. If your Saturn is not good, then you should go for a match where your spouse’s Saturn can support yours and protect your married life from misfortune. (Saturn represents luck).
3. Dasha – In simple terms, it means time period. Be mindful that both should not through the time period of a malefic planet at the same time. Example: If the couple simultaneously run through a time period which endangers their career, then clearly they are heading towards a financially difficult time.
4. Doshas – It means negative or problem-causing yogas. Like yogas, every person’s chart has doshas too. One should see that the doshas in both charts should not collectively strengthen any negative aspect to the extent that it causes any major issue. Example: Manglik Dosha
5. Gunas – We are all aware about this. Surprisingly most of the astrologers give it the highest importance in horoscope matching. But at number 5, obviously it isn’t the most significant, is it? In reality if the match is fine as per the top 4 points, then technically this one is worth ignoring altogether.
Hope the post has helped you understand why sometimes marriages of couple with high Guna score fall apart and the ones with score less than 18 lead a happy married life.
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This is amazingly surprising… It is like finding a combination of + & – irrespective having maximum gunas match… Awesome Bro 🙂
Well Written :))
Nice post. Most of people think that horoscope matching is just guna milan and nothing else. Actually it is a part of the process horoscope matching and it is not the complete process in itself.
Girls detail
Priyanka Yadav
Born in Rishra West Bengal
22nd november 1992
5.30 am
boys detail
Maitrey Trivedi
Born in Bhavnagar Gujarat
12th january 1993
5.30 pm
boy has low mangal dosh and we have only 11 gunas matching….We want to marry each other and his family be;ieves in kundali
I am really confused weather I should believe in horoscope or not to believe. I am Planning to marry my boyfriend.. We love each other and we do have good understanding but horoscope is not matching.. I am really scared now/
When you say “horoscope is not matching”, have you considered all the 5 factors mentioned above?
Nice Post Sir, Actually I’ve a question related to Bhakut dosha, we have good score in match making(26/36) but Bhakut shows 0/7, is there any problem? If yes then would be removed and how?
Highly appreciate your help.
Thanks.
Dear Amol,
The score match and Bhakoot dosha are not sufficient to arrive at a conclusion. They are of least importance when it comes to matching the horoscopes. It is suggested to decide based on “complete” match making.
Hello sir,
I am in long realationship with 1 guy..
And we want ti get marry.. but astrologically we are not compatible.. Having same Nadi Dosha and he ia having low mangal.. Need your suggestion.. plaese help sir
Dear Madhu,
You need not be worried about Nadi dosha if the first 4 Astrological points mentioned in this article match well.
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https://www.wisdomofplanets.com/product/kundali-matching/
Hello, I’ve been learning matchmaking thru the western tropical system and only this past year have tried to learn vedic matchmaking… so at first i was thinking the main difference was just goig to be some slight altering of planet placement since vedic using sidereal… But then after Imy seeing no use of trine or sextile compatibility between signs. Western astrology seems to mostly say that trine is the best connection… trine meaning 120degree apart same element. So water to water, air to air and fire to fire. As u mentioned above fire and fire are not a good match but in western astrology it’s considered ‘trine’.. I can understand how fire and fire could be a problem but what about water to water, example man with Pisces moon and woman with cancer moon? Or man with gemini moon and woman with aquarius moon?…. is only fire with fire bad? Anyways my main question is does vedic use a system of trine,sextile,conjuction,square,etc for matchmaking?
We are trying to match our kundali, we also got 15 gunas in it. My sunsign in Taurus n his Sagittarius thats why er get mrutyushadashtak. What it means? Is it too dangerous?? We need ur opinion. Plz help us out
I want to marry my gf, but as per astrology our gun matching is just 13.50 and she is manglik and i am not
My details are
Name – inderjeet
Dob-04 dec 1987
Time- 08.50 am
Place – delhi
And her details are
Name-yogita
Dob – 15 oct 1991
Time-04.52 pm
Place – delhi
Please advise
Hello Inderjeet,
Please place an order for kundali matching at the following link.
https://www.wisdomofplanets.com/product/kundali-matching/
Order already placed and the reference is Order #2447 (12th August 2018)
Did you get married?
Did you guys got married? Please answer. I have similar type of kundali.
Is that ur kundali milan product still available ????
Hello sir,
I am in relation with 1 guy from past 5 years and and we wanted to get marry…but astrologically we are not compatible we got only 11 points in kundli matching and it is that we got low score due to nadi dosha …need ur suggestion … please help sir!
hello sir,
I am in relationship with one guy who is intercaste my parents are not in favour during that time they showed our kundalis it doesn’t match only 5gun came so now they are completely against of it plz help me by suggesting something
tha ks in advance